We've discussed it, and the idea still excites her...
For many in traditonal marriages, it goes exactly the opposite - No outside sex when you feel connected to your spouse and then outside sex when you don't feel connected.
To me my wife is very beautiful.
It sounds to me as if your husband is either doubting is ability to make you happy or he may be cheating himself and is attempting to offset the gulit by giving you the same license.
I have always enjoyed being with a woman and thought this may be as far as my husbands fantasies would roam but recently he has been fantasizing about me being with another man.
My first marriage was an open marriage, at first it wasnt but after 4 or 5 years we started to experiment.
Description: When you're not feeling connected to your spouse, then is the time to work on re-establishing that connectedness.